Leaders Do It Now

by Richard on May 23, 2013

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Leaders Do It Now

As a leader at work, rest or play, if you don’t do it now when will you do it? If you don’t do it now what will or will not happen as a result?

Hopefully, that’s got you thinking.

One thing my Dad always said was that there is no time like the present. I took it to heart. When I was a kid I never procrastinated on homework assignments or projects. I was on a mission to become a veterinarian. Today when something needs doing I get it done. That’s one thing for which I’m well known amongst my network and clients.

People talk about wasting time or not wanting to waste time. Time is an asset that only exists in the present. To maximize my time, that’s where I live.

Question…

Where do you live?

In the past? The present? The future?

Where you live determines where your power lies.

In the past

I have few regrets.

One I do have is that I was not by my Dad’s side when he died. My comfort is that he had made his peace with God before he died.

Another regret people expect me to have is about leaving the veterinary profession. However, there was not enough to keep me there or take me back to it in the face of unemployment post 911

The past is history – you cannot change it. Men who dwell in the past live mostly in regret.

Living in the past means it has power over you. The key is to learn from your past and apply the learning now.

In the future

When I first started my coaching business I used to be very anxious about Mondays to the point that I would sometimes curl up in a ball on my office floor. I was so anxious and afraid of cold-calling. My fear was a mixture of fear of rejection, failure and success. My focus was on what could go wrong rather than what could go right.

The future is a mystery – men who dwell in the future live in fear and anxiety. You can only impact your future based on what you do now.

Living in the future also means it has power over you. The key is to prepare for your future now.

In the present

The present is reality – it is a gift. Men who live and lead here do so with power.

Living in the present means you have power over your past, present and future. It is the place, the time, when and where you are in control.

The key is to maximize your present now.

Now … you can overcome your past. Your past is a platform for today.

Now … you can prepare for your future. Your future is what you target today.

Where you are now is the result of all your past decisions and actions.

What you decide and act on now must utilize your past in order to determine your future.

What you sow now will grow tomorrow. That said, enjoy the video.

Your Powerplay

Determine where you are living mostly. Ensure that your focus is now – your present. Exert your power today every day.

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Taking A Leap Of Faith

by Richard on May 20, 2013

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Taking A Leap Of Faith

Without a leap of faith there would be no progress. Leaders bring progress. As men, we are all leaders. We must each, therefore, take a leap of faith or several as we progress our Journey of Success. The world would be a dull and unchanging place, similar to the dark ages, if no one took a leap of faith.

Any of you dads out there know (and likely can recall from when you were a kid) there are times when we encourage our kids to take leap of faith. Recently, I was in the local swimming pool with my kids. I was asking them to jump from the pool edge into my arms several feet away. From experience, to me it was nothing. From their inexperience, that few feet might as well have been a mile. Whilst I had the confidence and faith that all would be well, they weren’t sure. They were standing at the edge of their comfort zone looking out into the unknown with concern and, yes, some fear. Despite my encouragement and reassurances, their hesitation was due to the risk they saw, their lack of faith and questionable trust in me. And so it is with us when it comes to standing on the precipice of something new and/or unknown.

However, as my Dad instilled in me, you never know until you try.

Your success at work, rest and/or play is determined by the size of your comfort zone. Your comfort zone can be a protective barrier, a hindrance or a platform to launch out into the new, the unknown, the exciting. Opportunity for you and me always is out beyond your comfort zone. Our biggest limitation is ourselves. Fortune favours the bold – those full of faith who take action and move forward. The only way to expand your zone, the only way to progress your success and self-leadership is to take a leap of faith.

For more on taking a leap of faith enjoy this video.

Your Powerplay

Identify where you need to take a leap of faith. Put in place some accountability as required. Take that first step.

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Dr Richard Norris is a self-leadership master who equips and empowers aspiring men from the boardroom to the locker room to the family room to lead the life they deserve and desire. Clients find Richard’s practical, simple and easy to implement tools, tips and techniques deliver quick results and progress their Journey of Success. Richard’s own self-leadership has developed from a diverse career of experiences as a veterinarian, army officer, competitive swimmer, award-winning coach, speaker, author, husband and father.

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Are You Tired Of The Struggle?

May 16, 2013

Are You Tired Of The Struggle? If you are alive, you will struggle. No one gets a free pass of ease through life.  Life is a struggle. Life can be simple but it is not easy. As I have learned, that struggle can become very tiring. The key is to not struggle any more than [...]

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